I don't know why people who can't really control their own lives need to give advice on everyone else's life.

Why would I need to hear that someone who has been clinically depressed for more than two years and not taking her medication for it, doesn't think that the person that I am seeing challenges me enough. Its not helpful.
She doesn't think that we're going to ever get married, which may or may not be true, but she says it to rub it in that she and her boyfriend are going to get married in the summer?

I have never really felt pressured to get married. I've seen how badly it can work out and the horrible things that can happen to a person because they got married, or nearly got married, well before they were ready.

Will and I have spoken about it, but we are not engaged. He's convinced that we're going to be forever, and while I'm not completely sold on the idea, I'm not completely against it either.

Who is she to say how he challenges me. She hasn't spent any time with us both in a very long time. He may not be as intellectual as I am, but that isn't all there is to life and challenge.
He's not an idiot either. HE just isn't a interested in some things as I am. He is interested in other

And the reason that I'm not sold on us getting married is that my biggest challege with him is that I very rarely see him. And we're both so busy that when we have time off together, we have to do other things to keep our apartment running and our pets happy.

Sometimes I just wish people would stay out things when their opinions are not asked for.